Thursday, June 30, 2011
Do you guys know about the Brave Girls Club?
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Here was the daily truth today:
"One of the paradoxes of life is that sometimes the very best decisions have the most difficult consequences. And sometimes what is best is not what we want most. And sometimes when we want to feel peace, we have to do something that feels painful first. Sometimes, we have to do such hard things, and there's absolutely no other way.
"You can do it, though ... you know what is the right thing to do.. you know for sure in your gut and deep in your heart and a million signs have led you to what you are supposed to do. It still feels so scary, so difficult and so impossible, even for a very brave girl.
"Just know that most of the best things in life come after making the most difficult choices and doing the hardest things and taking the biggest risks.
"You really can do this ... and miracles are going to happen when you do."
My goodness, they are tiny.
You forget. Right? Isn’t it crazy how we forget?
My boss, aka mom2lulu, had her third baby girl last week and she brought the new one into work the other day.
She even said to me, “You’re not much of a baby person, right?”
I wasn’t sure how to answer that, if I was or wasn’t. I like babies very much when they’re not crying non-stop for seemingly no reason. Yes, at every other time, I like them lots. When they’re crying those tiny cries, well, yes, I’d prefer an 18-month-old.
At any rate, I liked her baby a lot. She was so delicate, just a small bundle of coziness. Her skin was perfect, her brown hair was fluffy, she opened her baby eyes and just looked around the room - at the lights on the ceiling and all the strange faces peering at her.
I held her briefly – until she started to cry. And then Mom took her and all was well in her tiny world again.
It made me want one.
Which is out of the question for all sorts of reasons.
But still, my goodness, babies are sweet.
Do you ever get baby fever when you see a newborn?
This post originally appeared on momaha.com, the World-Herald's website for moms. (It's Veronica's full-time job.)